ME AND MY FAMILY HAVE A DEBATE GOING ON . THE DEBATE IS WHEN IS A YOUNG LADY OLD ENOUGH TO WEAR A THONG ??? I KNOW A LOT OF PARENTS ARE SAYING NOPE NOT MY DAUGHTER !!!! I REALLY CAN UNDERSTAND BOTH SIDES. MY NIECES SAY THONGS ARE MORE COMFORTABLE TO WEAR AND WHEN THEY WEAR FRENCH CUT OR ANY OTHER PANTIES THEY FEEL LIKE THEY ARE WEARING A DIAPER. I UNDERSTAND THAT BECAUSE WE ALL WEAR ARE UNDERWEAR TO OUR COMFORT. MEN TO. BOXERS BRIEFS BIKINI"S. SO OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS SAY IT PROMOTES SEX ??? SO ITS COMFORT VERSES WHAT WE PERCIEVE TO BE SEXY ????? I HAVE TO GIVE MY NIECES THIS. THEY ARE NOT G- STRINGS BUT FULL THONGS. THEY ARE NOT HIKED UP ABOVE THERE PANTS FOR THE WORLD TO SEE LIKE SUM WOMEN AND GURLS DO. I AM CURIOUS TO GET EVERYONES OPINION !!! MY NIECES ARE WITH ME AS I AM WRITING THIS AND WE WILL BE CHECKING BACK TOGETHER JUST TO SEE WHAT MEN AND WOMEN ARE SAYING. I CAN TELL YOU THIS , EVERTHING IN ME SCREAMS NO NO NO BUT AGAIN WE ALL ARE DIFFERENT IN WHATS COMFORTABLE FOR US !!!! CANT WAIT TO HEAR YOUR RESPONSES !!!!!!! MY NIECES RANGE FROM 14 YRS TO 12 YRS OLD IN QUESTION ???? ALL ARE VERY MATURE BUT ALL ARE FINDING THE WONDERFUL WORLD OF BOYS. BUT AS MY NIECE IS SAYING NOW, SHE WAS WEARING THONGS WAY BEFORE SHE GOT INTO BOYS !!!
Hello Kellie and Neices
I'm probably not going to have the popular opinion on this one... Sorry parents.
I vote that the girls get to wear whatever they like under their clothing, and that we add a padlock to the belt that holds the jeans up. Smiles! I'm not heartless! We can get a whole set of padlocks in all kinds of pretty colors that will completely go with every fashion statement that they own.
And, gals? Check out how cool this padlock set-up can be!!! No more gym class!!! We can all sit here and come up with wonderful excuses to put on notes to get you out of changing in the locker room.
You're in Florida. There's not a whole lot of difference between the thongs and the swimsuits out displayed on the public beach. I'd fight a thong swimsuit tooth and nail. There's no reason to be asking for trouble. Nobody should be seeing the underwear.
If underwear style gives a little more confidence while sitting with legs crossed in class, there's no reason why I wouldn't have let my girls wear the latest fashion at that age. Uh... in MY choice of prim and proper color combinations. No feathers!!!
Gals? Bad news. I used to make my daughters buy "gotta' have" items out of their own allowance while I supplied what I thought they should have. This allowed me to continue feeling like I was still doing the right thing.
My slim gals wanted size 40 jeans with boxers hanging out of the top to copy the newest style. I did not buy them. Santa eventually brought the Mickey Mouse boxers that looked cuter than what they could afford. While I never budged from my "I'm not buying it" decision.
Happy thoughts to you gals! Catherine
THANXS CATHERINE !!!!
MY NIECES ARE READING THIS WITH ME !!!! THEY ARE ALREADY DOING CHORES OVERTHE SUMMER TO BUY THEIR STYLE OF CLOTHES !!! AGAIN I HAVE NO CHILDREN OF MY OWN AND I HAVE 2 SISTERS THAT HAVE NO PROBLEM AND 1 SISTER WHOS HAVING A COW !!!! THANKYOU FOR YOUR HONESTY IN THIS MATTER !!! I KNOW ITS A WEIRD TOUCHY SUBJECT FOR SUM BUT IT SEEMS TO BE A CRISIS IN MY FAMILY RIGHT NOW. BECAUSE I HAVE NO KIDS ITS HARD FOR ME TO JUDGE THIS ONE. AGAIN EVERYTHING IN ME WANTS TO WRAPP THEM HEAD TO TOE AND KEEP THEM YOUNG BUT THATS NOT REALITY !!!! BUT U MAY BE ON TO THIS LOCK THING !!! LOL !! MY NIECES NOT LAUGHING !!! LOL !!!!
Oh dear. Girls? You're going to hate me. I have a 50-ish guy standing behind me reading the chat. He's bringing up something none of us have thought of.
Can you young ladies deal with every boy at school talking to each other about your undie style? I mean out loud - sometimes where you can hear it - talking?
We don't know if this will happen. But, think about it. All of your friends do talk about what clothing the other kids have on. All it would take is one girl from gym class mentioning your new style to her friend - with a boy hearing the conversation.... and this thing could go out of control at school quickly.
Okay, I'm changing my vote. There's no way I'd be able to go to school daily with everybody talking about my underwear. I'd simply die if something like that happened. And, that's what you are risking. Kids talking to kids. So, don't put those things on. Stay safe. Stay happy. Don't chance to mess up your school life. Think of the most unpopular person at school. You just can't chance going there. Kids gossip and they are not nice if they are jealous about what you have on. Don't do this! It's too dangerous.
LOL !!! WELL ANOTHER GOOD POINT CATHERINE. I AM CALLING MY NIECES AND LETTING THEM KNOW ANOTHER CON TO THE THONG !!! I KNOW THERE IS SO MANY WAYS TO THINK OF THIS ???? SO MUCH COULD HAPPEN OVER FRIGGIN UNDERWEAR !!!! LOL !!!! OKAY GOT MY NIECE ON THE PHONE AND SHE SAYS IF SHE WEARS GRANNY PANTIES SHE WILL ALSO GET MADE FUN OF ??? HER DEFINITION OF GRANNY PANTIES IS ANYTHING OTHER THAN A THONG !!! ????
