I've got the answer!!! Homeschool!!! (Laughing "x" - Just kidding gals!! I know that Jr and Sr High is more fun at school than at home.)
Hummm.... So, no matter what you put on somebody will make fun of you. That is a problem. This will be a good brain puzzle for me today. I'll keep thinking. There has to be an answer that makes Everybody! happy. We just need to figure out what it is.
My friend (when I was younger, around 11-13) would complain about panty lines and how wearing a thong would make it so that would see the lines when wearing yoga pants or tight jeans. Her mom wouldn't let her wear a thong and instead would make her wear tights/pantyhose instead.
If I had a daughter there would be no way she was getting a thong at 12. Maybe 14-15.