Introduction and Detailed Philselfological Point of View for Sex, Soul Mates and Marriage Life 41

Introduction and Detailed Philselfological Point of View for Sex, Soul Mates and Marriage Life: Be Happy Philselfologically – 41

Its practical approach in the human relationships in the martial life and in any other form that asks a philselfological questions: How to Search for the Soul Mates- A Philselfological View? What is Sex and Why do the marriages breaks? We can have many reasons for it but philselfologically.

We have mostly noticed that making the home real needs the creative thinking. The joy of home is totally an art, which many people avoid to learn because they feel that it is taking up the responsibilities. The home making and responsibility are part of social maturity, which leads to intellectual and emotional maturity and thus the stability. The final aim of home is for spiritual maturity.

Many people believe that it was the Freud, who introduced Psychology as the desire for sex. However it is not the case, the ancient Indian Scriptures use such a high level of word for it that the psychologists, who follow the theories of the Freud may find it disgusting and wonderful at the same time. The Indian scriptures use the word Aapat Kaam, the sexual urge of the soul.

Now, there cannot be more than this. The Freud talks about the physical desire, but the in the Indian Civilization it is the desire of the soul to have sex, the blissful joy of self as experienced in the meditation and at that state of mind one is but without body, the physical body is no longer felt, but the body and mind as a whole. The Bodiless Love, if we accept the term.

The entire have the desire of the sex at the soul level, this is the love, which one has for the God. The way Soul loves God is the ever contenting fulfillment of all desires. The mediation is a kind of self-love, but it is not physical. It is the Aapat Kaam, the sex which is spiritual in nature. This is the surrender of ego and the joy of the state of egoless level of mind. This level is the level of selflessness, the original state of the ego.

The joy of it is so high that person would not like to have physical relationships at the cost of it.

The cause of the breaking of the marriages is that the attraction cannot be the affinity. When we find the soul mates, it is not finding the body that attracts us; it is finding the soul, which can have the bond of affinity. This bond is like a covalent bond as if the one in the ideal gases like the Helium.

The creative thinking and the scientific feelings blend covalently when we accept these as the two atoms of the nucleus of the self, the platform of soul mating, and thus the philselfological human bonds.

We now need to look into the matter otherwise:

Detailed Philselfological Point of View for Sex, Soul Mates and Marriage Life:

The attraction and affinity have two different concepts. The affinity is the most appropriate way for marriage; the attraction is a different aspect. The marriage is not just a bond. In the Indian Religions and the Faiths, the word Grahysatha Ashram is for marriage life. The Ashram is for taking the help and refuge for betterment of life. The Grahysatha Ashram is thus living in the refuge of the householder’s life. Now, the householder is not the caretaker, landlord and or the one, who possesses the house. It is the making the word home real as art and thus and then the law of affinity.

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Well, we notice that when we go to the hotels, clubs, and various other places in life, but these cannot be home. The home is feeling of affinity, which even the couple without having a house can have. On the other hand a rich person having all possible luxuries may not enjoy the feelings of the home.

The search for the soul mates is going higher than we can imagine, but the ways and the means are getting difficult as it is for the professionals, who give the psychic readings. The Reiki, Psychic readings, Intuitive readings and many other ways are now the means for it. However, it is not that these are wrong, the matter is that the people, who may not have any experience in these claim to guide the masses. The better way could have been to teach and learn about how to know about the soul mate.

The desire and need seem one to those, who do not have the quality of the psychic and the intuitive readings. So mostly one seems to follow the desire, which leads to fantasy for meeting the soul mate. Now, we may wonder about how this fantasy has promoted the websites for the affection promotion.

What does it make the human, a product for sensual pleasure and the grand market of the products for the stimulants both medical and equipments, while offering the guarantee to satisfy the most fundamental human urge, the desire for love and the love mates.

These are the false prophets of love. The love is not a use of human as product and the products, where the human body is a tool. The Freud says that in all relationships there is presence of desire, particularly the urge for sex.

It seem to have promoted to such an extent that the websites are now teaching how mothers can teach the sons, the fathers to the daughters, the teaches to the students, the brothers to sisters and all other relations demons on the webs. On the other hand, the Freud says that the diseases, which the kids have from the parental side.

The controversial topic its now very much now when we learn it philselfologically that has moved the masses for heterosexual to homosexual exploring for the soul mates seems the mockery of the psychological problems which evolve from the human relationships. The emerging of the sedative growing up from the childhood to adult age as there is what is on the artificial world of the porn, the mothers’ phobias, father’s child abuse and the child abuse at large scale has become such a normal phenomena that parents, educators, preachers and all those, who could have guided the youth for the kind of life, which promotes the home making cannot do anything. The process of home breaking seems dominating.

The woman as a product seems highly profitable to such porn websites to almost most of the people who launch them as if they are a kind of product.

Now, the question is if the psychic readings and the web searches for such purposes are guiding well, why there is such a high level of threat to the human bond of marriage?

The reason is simple we are moving towards the fantasy world, where the stimulants and the humans have no difference. At one place there are the websites on the other hand the warning would appear that if one has viewed any such vulgar video or anything in the paradise of pornographic world, it may disturb the marriage life, so the cleansing of the hard disk is the taking bath in the holy water to remove the sins. It does not appear that there are enough websites for sex education and the marriage life.

However, I have noticed few. The lack of the desire management can upset the dutifulness, economic balance and the living the life with liberty and freedom. It happens when we do not have the creative thinking and knowledge of the creative arts in practical and lacks the managed feelings as the scientific ones, philselfologically, as the singing and listening the music differs so does the joy of viewing and doing the works, which we like to view.

The majority of the porn’s paradises are for making the mockery of the woman as a product and woman’s products for stimulants. Well, you see these stimulants imbalance the hormones and the psychic centers, and thus the biorhythm of the females and the males as well. There is no such thing as perfect male and the perfect female, but perfect couples or householder families do exist. We all have the ratio of the hormones, which on having different ratio makes one male and the other female.

The full hormones of male, as the absence of the estrogen in the male is not possible, neither in the female that it is absent in her. The soul mate is thus the one, in whose presence there are the following points present

1. No thought vibrations for sensual joy

2. No urge for stimulation

3. No desire for the physical relations

However the following would appear,

1. The joy of presence

2. The surrender of ego

3. The feelings one oneness as the mind has no desire to possesses

4. Absence of fear to lose

5. Singleness of thought, in which there is no comparison

Well, you see these points remove the cause of great suffering as the comparison and the contrast, which the intellect uses as a snake bite, when one as the assumed soul mate fails to perform as if a product to the consumer.

Well, you there are usually many questions raised about why the woman in India assumes her husband as equivalent to God, that is, she worships him as God. It is for the Aapat Kaam, the desire of the soul for which the bliss surpasses the so called orgasms and the other centers. Her affection for the husband is as if for God, the Purusha that is inside both male and female as the right side of the body that deals with the intellect, and thus the loyalty for so that the attraction for the left side of the body that is lunar and thus the female energies both in the left side of body and the right side of the brain does not get harmed.

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Among many great Indians, the people who have contributed most on, about and for sex education includes Osho and the Harbhajan Singh Yogi of USA, and I may not say that they completed their works that can be introduced in the schools and other institutions that need it more seriously than ever before.

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Osho’s opinion on Sex Education, World Population

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The world religions and faiths have three branches namely the Brahma that follows the Teachers Life , Vishnu that follows the God worship as the Sun, the Warriors Life and the Shiva follows the Shiv-Shakti concepts as the Technologists Life.

These branches are supplement and complement in the social structures and its development and evolution. Teachers have high ethics and morals as they do need as if a Brahmans do, the Warriors have high restrictions on martial and sex life and thus many may not even like to talk to opposite sex or any talk about it, and finally the Technologists need high quality and techniques invented based on social needs and thus they talk about cause and effect, the techniques and skills that help householders life making it easier and enjoyable. Without these three major ones, the rest of the people who do not to follow these are called the Prajapati, who produce things as needed in their families and societies.

They are not just people, but the people without whom nothing in action is possible as the Teachers work on Pure Research Works, the Technologists applies the pure works into action, and thus the Action Research Works, and the Soldiers and Warriors are the form of Applied Research Works, and thus are considered scientific in approach, and it helps in maintaining the society with better soul management as this part of the series Be Happy Philselfologically discusses.

Thus, for the holistic body as one soul needs that we accept one another as the souls – a complete person so similarly as for the right side of the body we have on the other hand, the Indian husband would accept her as the Power of Mother Nature, the Shakti, the right brain in an individual running the left side of body in everyone, and without which the man or woman is as if a dead body.

They unite as the God and Mother Nature. The natural harmony, which is not possible to break as God and Mother Nature are one and the same. This bond is named as the bond of the soul mate.

She knows that there can be many men in the world, but she has hers as the only male. On the other hand for the man, all the women are just image of the womanhood, not of her soul mate as his wife is. This concept surpasses when the soul level concept emerges as that all creation is in the female form.

All the creation, of which we all are the part, is in the female form. There is no gender difference and thus the covalent bond. We enjoy the ionic bonds and when the attraction from outside increases the bond breaks. Thus breaking the marriages, which were the committed ones initially?

All the ionic bonds are symbol of attraction, but the affinity represents the union of the similar atoms.

It may be the soul level, when we understand that we do not have compare the gender, once the marriage bond is in function, as it needs the covalence state. Thus the hunting for the soul mates is the outer reactions to the glittering beauty, the mirage. The transcendental soul mating lifts the helium bond to the sky, in which the ideal bond is present. The ionic bonds, which feel the need to react for the differences in the physical forms and the existence, are not stable.

These are based on the concept that there is gender, the ionization of the hormones. However it does not mean the homosexual are the covalent bonds, as they have the same body. They have the same ionic levels, as the hydrogen meets the hydrogen atom to make the hydrogen molecule, which burns.

The same bonds when go through the soul level process of co-valence, the coexistence as its the law of affinity in most cases that we all seek and want as it goes for the helium atom, which uplifts the souls, and thus the soul mates. The ionization in the relations causes the stimulation leading to more and more reactivity, while there is no achievement of the contentment at the soul level.

Philselfologically, the covalent bond is the meeting and the union of the creative thinking, the active part in the females due to hormones and the scientific feelings in the males due to the hormones, the estrogen level, and the balances that makes the human body as the males and the females. The self as the soul does not differ; there is no soul for which we have a gender.

The gender is for the biological body, the outer configuration of the nucleus. Well, in the nucleus the protons can exist together, while outside it is repulsive leading to the nucleus of the soul mating.

Now, when we may ever go for soul mates philselfologically as if for the joy of the metaphysical, mystical and metaphorical world and that is possible only if we know how to respect one as a gender the root word is jind, means the biological life of a body as a physical that is why many sing it as the jindoo or jindu means life of life for great respecting one another. The gender and the jinder has the similar meaning as for the jitendar, the winner of senses and thus the sex life without physical abuse is the jinder, the Indra of Life that has what the bioengineering deals in our body, the bio-energies in it as the word J or even G stands for the Jeeva, the Shakti and or Vital Energies of an individual.

Let us respect the Jee as we say Mr. Steven Ferrel Jee or Ji and Shri Guru Nanak Dev Jee or Ji, and thus is the Jee or Ji (the Jee or Ji is also written as Gee or Gi as almost same in the Hindi, Punjabi, Sanskrit and many other languages) and that is true for each body that lives and that we entered as a soul to keep it alive and which dies when we, the souls leave it.

This is what Be Philselfologically Happy says for every living one and those who depart and among us who will come keep the fetus alive out the womb till it emerges back to the tomb as we all are going to grave.

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