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opposite of willpower is
      discipline. How so?



      Discipline comes from a place of
      love. Discipline sounds like this, “I
      love the way that food tastes, but
      I love myself more.” Using
      discipline feels great; you feel
      empowered and crystal clear
      about what you truly want. You

      are unwilling to give up what you
      want most for what your mind is
      saying you want right now.
      Conversely, when you are using
      willpower alone, you are pissed
      off at yourself, even after you
      have made the right choice. You
      feel imprisoned by food and

      indebted to some old behavior.
      Then three days later, you eat
      something even worse than the
      food you avoided to spite
      yourself.


                                                               permanent change). We have to start

      Why do so many of us face                                connecting more pleasure than pain
      constant resistance when we try                          to healthy habits..
      to do the right thing, and how can
      we get ourselves to do the things
      we know are good for our health                          You also say that before we
      but that we have a hard time                             attempt to achieve anything, we
      doing?                                                   must begin by having extreme
                                                               clarity about the outcome we
      We face resistance because we                            want to create. Why is that step

      haven’t yet done the inner work.                         so essential and will you give us
      Humans are wired to seek pleasure                        an example?
      only and we don’t like do anything
      that we associate with pain. If we                       Knowing your “why” is about focusing
      have a story about cooking or                            on your outcome, not the process it
      exercising that has pain attached,                       takes to get there. An engaged
      then we won’t ever be able to                            woman wanting to fit into her

      consistently do those behaviors                          wedding dress is a perfect example.
      (consistent behaviors equates to                         She has a clear why (outcome). She’s
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