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expectation of those behaviors and
                                                                 motives onto new people we meet.

                                                                 Each time we anticipate that others
                                                                 will respond in negative ways, our
                                                                 bodies go into a subtle flight or fight
                                                                 response-we experience stress and

                                                                 set the stage for disharmony.

                                                                 The ancient Taoists describe
                                                                 negative projection as an energetic
                                                                 transgression, the projection of
                                                                 negative energy onto someone who
                                                                 is in a positive state.


                                                                 When we project negative thoughts,
                                                                 it not only harms our own psyches
                                                                 and bodies by creating stress, but
                                                                 also harms the person to whom we
                                                                 are projecting.


                                                                 Thus, bliss is a gift of seeing and
                                                                 accepting others and of being seen
                                                                 and accepted. Think about that. Who
                                                                 does not light up when they feel
                                                                 fully seen and validated? Thus, we
                                                                 always have the choice to give the
                                                                 gift of bliss to others or to subdue it

                                                                 by failing to fully acknowledge and
      unheard so hesitates next time to                        validate others.
      share so openly with Richard. Thus,
      tension arises in the relationship.                      Meditate on and visualize bliss.

      Imagine the difference if Richard had                    Create a vision of what bliss

      stayed in the present moment,                            represents to you. What does it look
      connected with the bliss in Sarah's                      like in your relationships? What does
      comment, and responded with, "Wow,                       it look like in your career? What does
      I am so glad you feel so wonderful                       it look like in terms of your spiritual
      about us! I do too."                                     and physical health practices?

      Let go of emotional baggage.                             Play!


      Many of us subconsciously expect                         Bliss resides in play. Children
      others to treat us in the negative                       intuitively know this. Yet as adults, we
      ways that people in our past have                        convince ourselves that our
      treated us. So, we project an                            responsibilities, our mental


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